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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Dave Date/time : March 24, 2008 1:13pm |
 Hey all, this is great, thanks for all the advice. I've moved on and am happily single. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Claire Date/time : December 2, 2007 5:02am |
| It has been a long time since you found this sock that could be from a laundry mat. You must still want to be with her. Have you ever tried asking her? Justsk her and see what she has to say. If she seems to be honest and you still love her then just get over it or move on. I once left an eyepencil in a mans car because I knew he was dating others but I don't think that the other 2 girls knew about each other. So by leaving the eyepencil behind they wanted to know how it got in his car and who it belonged to. The other 2 girls are history and we have been together for 14 year now. So if it is ment to be it will. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : bridget Date/time : November 28, 2007 12:02pm |
I have to reply to all of you young people.Please
realize that you are in the most time of your lives and you have to realize that sometimes well
it doesnt work out.I will tell everyone of what
happened to me.In the early 1970s I was dating a
wonderful guy.We were just to young and I was just out of high school.This guy did not like to
talk but when he saw my best friend his eyes lit up.And they for some reason would spend the time
laughing and such.Now a girl who I worked with did not like my best friend and told me that she
was nothing but trouble.She was right.One night I
had to work late.He was yelling at me again because he did not want me to work and when I told my father that I wanted to quit my job because of this guy..he told the guy to get lost.
I had the key to the apartment.It was his birthday.He did not pick me up from work.I walked
into the apartment and saw clothes are scattered
around and that is when I caught my best friend and my boyfriend together.He told me that he had
a bad back and that she was rubbing his back.Is
he kidding? He was half undressed! I put my engagement ring on the dresser and left.The next
day he called me and said it was a misunderstanding! And he told me that he wanted to marry me under one condition--that he could bring a girlfriend home and I would cook for the
both of them! I havent seen or heard from them in
almost 30 years! I do not want to see him or her.
When a man cheats..it is usually boredom,but honey if she is cheating...please I am telling all of you this person will cause you heartbreak!
Please drop the both of them as I did and I am 60
and have not gotten married but he was not all of
the stress neither was she.And I want to say to
all of you Aries ---this is your year.Aries people are the most handsome and best looking people in the zodiac.Enjoy the rest of the year.A
surprize around May 15!
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Kansas Date/time : November 27, 2007 5:02pm |
| maybe you're looking for a reason to break up with her??? And you don't want to be the bad guy??? If you have 2nd thoughts...you're better off making your self happy and be honest with yourself and her...Don't string her along, it would be unfair to her. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Scott Date/time : November 27, 2007 6:02am |
| Dude, you got a free sock out of the deal. I don't see what the problem is. Maybe he'll leave a cool jacket next time? |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Diana Date/time : November 26, 2007 8:02pm |
Do you have any brothers that live in the same house? Have any male relatives visited lately? Is she a tomboy at all? These could all explain that sock.
If it's not yours, not hers and not anyone else's who lives IN or has visited the house recently, you already have your answer. The only decision you have to make now is whether or not you're going to accept it and stay or reject the unfaithfulness and leave. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Kathy Date/time : November 25, 2007 10:02pm |
 I tried....lol, please let me know if you got it or not....nothing would surprise me if you didn't....lol.
Kathy :P |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Dave Date/time : November 25, 2007 6:02pm |
| Hey Kathy... if youre still reading this thing, im still single. If youre actually interested, shoot me an email: davemmmm AT gmail DOT com |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Kathy Date/time : November 23, 2007 10:02am |
Ughhhhh, ummmmmm.....well I HAVE read this from top to bottom....unlike some other people I guess.
It's good that you found out what was up....and I don't know where you stand as of right now cuz well that was a few months ago that all that stuff happend....
Anyways I am sinlge and I am always looking for new friends no matter where they live in the United States. Did I mention that I LOVE to travel??? LOL. :P |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Gretchen Date/time : November 23, 2007 5:02am |
| If you use an apartment laundry room or public laundromat, the sock was probably left in the washer or dryer before your girl friend put her wash in and so got mixed up with her things. And if she was using your personal washer/dryer, just ask her where the sock came from. Don't assume she's cheating on you, assume your good relations up to this time will help you both talk it out. She'll tell you the truth. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Annette Date/time : November 21, 2007 1:02pm |
 You said you found a sock in her sheets? does she go to the laundry mat to do her laundry? You did'nt mention how you found it. were the sheets inthe laundry basket or on the bed itself? If you want advice, you need to be a little more specific about were it was found. People loose more socks in the washer and dryers at laundry mats as well as at home. before you jump to conclusions, you need to ask yourself if it had gotten there some other way that is purely accidental. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Amy Date/time : November 19, 2007 8:02am |
She hasn't changed her sheets in a couple of weeks and someone else slept in her bed? EEEWWW!
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Robert Date/time : November 19, 2007 3:02am |
| Get real if shes cheating on you dump her! there is a lot of fish inthe sea |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : mary Date/time : November 18, 2007 8:02pm |
| Ha Ha Ha........ahh young love! This boy played you all like a harp. Oh well...gotta give him credit for creativity LOL. He used the ole sock in the bed oh me oh my love is cheatin on me. How come he is so calm, especially since they were living together..........I mean I sense no pain or loss....anyone else? I ain't ditchin you Dave and I hope you find your soulmate whom gains your trust and you all have ten beautiful kids and........ |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Cari Date/time : November 17, 2007 11:02am |
Dave,
You seem like a really nice guy and I like ur pic. Where are you from? I like my men fresh on the rebound and it would appear that you don;t have any baggage. Call me?? ;) |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Dave Date/time : November 17, 2007 10:02am |
Hi everyone, thanks for the advice. I finally confronted her and there was good news and bad news... The good news is she wasn't cheating on me!!!
It was her father's sock, I forgot, he had visited a couple weeks ago, she gave him her bed, hence the sock.
The bad news is that she said she'd like to take a break. I suppose its good that i confronted her, because I got her to talk about her problems with me (including not trusting her...).
So, I guess I'm on my own again. I never thought I'd find helpful advice on the forums of a site for free samples, but what can i say. Thanks FreeFlys!
PS so any of you ladies available? |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : wanda Date/time : November 16, 2007 11:02pm |
| you need to sit down with her and talk about it before you make a decsion.Let her explain herself and keep it moving.BY: WANDA |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : jenna Date/time : November 16, 2007 1:02pm |
| Well? What happened...my advice too would be just to talk to her and ask about it..what else can you do..If its something explainable then you will be making things up in your head about things that aren't real and will destroy the relationship with doubts... |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Rina Date/time : November 16, 2007 7:02am |
| Dave i think you should talk to her a good relationship starts with a good communication. If it's not your sock don't right away think the worst. But when you talk to her talk to her in a calm manner. Girls don't like to be yelled at. If you just talk like i said you'll be able to get through alot. And by communicating with her that lets her know that you want things to work between you and her,and that you love her very much and that's why you came to her about it. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Samantha Date/time : November 16, 2007 3:02am |
 wow that sux...im very impatient cuz i like to confront right away even if im out of place so i dunno what to tel you...and it seems like a couple of ppl on here just want physically hurt her lol...you dont wanna do that but if you do wanna say something do it soon b4 its too late to matter...or try to get it out of her. HInt that you know somethings up |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Judy Date/time : November 15, 2007 9:02pm |
| If you realy want to know if she is cheating, confront her and ask her where the sock came from and how did it end up in her bed in the first place. If she dosnt give you an answer right away and she looks like she is thinking of an answer than yes she must be cheating on you. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Dave Date/time : November 15, 2007 6:02pm |
um. judith's response really makes me feel uncomfortable.
re: samantha, we've been together 6 months. I thought things we're going really well actually. We never fight, we like a lot of the same things: music, hair conditioner, stargazing.
The only thing weird is that she quit her job all of a sudden, i guess she felt unfairly treated. Also, she told me that she wanted to have a talk tonight. I don't know what thats about. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : judith Date/time : November 15, 2007 5:02pm |
| I think you should make a puppet out of the sock and then make it talk to your gf..she will think it is an actual game and role playing and then you should change the tone in the sock puppets voice and say "I KNOW THIS ISNT MY SOCK YOU CHEAT, WHOS SOCK IS IT?!" and if she doesnt answer, you should muffle her mouth w the sock puppet. |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Samantha Date/time : November 15, 2007 10:02am |
| Where were you at? How long have you been together? Has she been acting weird lately? |
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| RE: What should i do about my girlfriend? |
By : Jenna Date/time : November 15, 2007 9:02am |
| tell that dirty dirty ho to shove that stinky sock... i got nuthin. |
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