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what would you do? Created by : angelia     Date/time : April 11, 2008 3:34am
i agree with Jen / there is a reason you are not with your ex / remember / relive that
RE: what would you do? By : James     Date/time : November 3, 2009 6:23pm
Marrage is very speacial unity between two people. If you even had a slight thought that this sittuation would happen, why get married in the first place. You need to work things out with your husband. Reguardless what what an ass he might be. I sure you're not perfect either. SIT DOWN TOGETHER AND TALK THINGS THROUGH. DON'T FIGHT, YELL, SCREEM, WHATEVER. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER.
RE: what would you do? By : Danita     Date/time : October 26, 2009 12:38am
marriage is sacred you do not discuss problems with an ex
RE: what would you do? By : Paula     Date/time : October 5, 2009 2:27pm
angelia - why are you discussing your HUSBAND with your EX?!!! That's a line that shouldn't ever be crossed, and you and your ex both ought to know better than that.

Sounds like your ex has you back - without intervention, this is an affair by now.

If anybody is ever in this situation, please don't ask a forum - ask a counselor!
RE: what would you do? By : Laura     Date/time : September 5, 2008 9:37pm
Ask God for His strength, and His guidance. It will all work out.
RE: what would you do? By : michelle     Date/time : July 31, 2008 10:29pm
ask yourself this....whos better in bed?????? ;)
RE: what would you do? By : rebecca     Date/time : July 28, 2008 1:00pm
People get bored being in the same situation day after day.Maybe instead of wanting to be with your ex you need to be with yourself a little bit to see exactly what it is you want before you rush into something else. RJ from GA.
RE: what would you do? By : bigblackone     Date/time : July 8, 2008 11:51am
Angelia baby PLEASE come home. I know all about you and Dave. We can work this out.just give me another chance my little snow flake. Dave can't work da middle like i could. PLEASE COME HOME. I love you!
I cant belive you doin my like this.
RE: what would you do? By : bigblackone     Date/time : July 8, 2008 11:43am
I can't Even belive you doing this to me.
RE: what would you do? By : bigblackone     Date/time : July 8, 2008 11:38am
I'd auda kick yo teeth in you trick. You goda stand by yo man. You two fighten , you stand by yo man, he loose his job, you stand by yo man, he gets hurt, you stand by you man, you catch him fuxin a nutta ho, you stand by you man.
RE: what would you do? By : LAURA     Date/time : June 19, 2008 11:48pm
if you are going to leave your hubby, do it because you don't love him, but don't go back to your ex. if you have the resources to establish yourself as a single woman, by all means do so. When you are settled into your new life, then bring in your ex. on a temporary basis and try it. but if the situation with your ex. does not work, you will have a place to be.
RE: what would you do? By : Vera     Date/time : May 14, 2008 11:23am
I agree with Jen, there is a reason you arent with your Ex. but more importantly you need to look back and think about what it was that brought you and your husband together in the first place. If you dont think you can make it with your husband thats one thing but dont use your ex as a crutch, maybe you need time away from both to get your head straight and figure out what is most important to you.
RE: what would you do? By : jen     Date/time : May 7, 2008 10:58pm
First you need to ask yourself what it was that made you leave your ex in the first place.......Obviously you weren"t happy. You'll always love your ex for the simple fact you two spent so much time together and at one point he was your everything it wouldn't be human to feel nothing when you see him again. The fact is you owe your husband the father of your child more than this. focus more on how you can save your marriage rather than your ex. If not for you do it for your child he deserves more. see how that works out and if you still feel hopeless then talk to your husband about it because like they say honesty is the best policy and it truly is. GOOD LUCK
RE: what would you do? By : angelia     Date/time : April 11, 2008 3:34am
ok. here goes. my husband and I have been married for over 6 years. recently, my ex, whom i haven't seen in over 10 years came back into the picture. i realize now that i may have jumped into the situation after not fully realizing that i wasn't over my ex. now with him being in the picture, i keep wishing i was with my ex. me and my husband seem to always fight about everything, and my ex and i have never fought at all....ever! i have a 4 year old son with my husband, but i don't know what to do about my ex. at this point, i feel like i love him more than my own husband. i've told my ex my situation, and he seems to think that because of the constant fighting, that i should just leave. sometimes i wonder if it isn't worth it to just leave and go back to my ex. what do would you do?


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