|
|
| ok. here goes. my husband and I have been married for over 6 years. recently, my ex, whom i haven't seen in over 10 years came back into the picture. i realize now that i may have jumped into the situation after not fully realizing that i wasn't over my ex. now with him being in the picture, i keep wishing i was with my ex. me and my husband seem to always fight about everything, and my ex and i have never fought at all....ever! i have a 4 year old son with my husband, but i don't know what to do about my ex. at this point, i feel like i love him more than my own husband. i've told my ex my situation, and he seems to think that because of the constant fighting, that i should just leave. sometimes i wonder if it isn't worth it to just leave and go back to my ex. what do would you do? |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : jen Date/time : May 7, 2008 10:58pm |
| First you need to ask yourself what it was that made you leave your ex in the first place.......Obviously you weren"t happy. You'll always love your ex for the simple fact you two spent so much time together and at one point he was your everything it wouldn't be human to feel nothing when you see him again. The fact is you owe your husband the father of your child more than this. focus more on how you can save your marriage rather than your ex. If not for you do it for your child he deserves more. see how that works out and if you still feel hopeless then talk to your husband about it because like they say honesty is the best policy and it truly is. GOOD LUCK |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : Vera Date/time : May 14, 2008 11:23am |
| I agree with Jen, there is a reason you arent with your Ex. but more importantly you need to look back and think about what it was that brought you and your husband together in the first place. If you dont think you can make it with your husband thats one thing but dont use your ex as a crutch, maybe you need time away from both to get your head straight and figure out what is most important to you. |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : LAURA Date/time : June 19, 2008 11:48pm |
| if you are going to leave your hubby, do it because you don't love him, but don't go back to your ex. if you have the resources to establish yourself as a single woman, by all means do so. When you are settled into your new life, then bring in your ex. on a temporary basis and try it. but if the situation with your ex. does not work, you will have a place to be. |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : bigblackone Date/time : July 8, 2008 11:38am |
 I'd auda kick yo teeth in you trick. You goda stand by yo man. You two fighten , you stand by yo man, he loose his job, you stand by yo man, he gets hurt, you stand by you man, you catch him fuxin a nutta ho, you stand by you man. |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : bigblackone Date/time : July 8, 2008 11:43am |
| I can't Even belive you doing this to me. |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : bigblackone Date/time : July 8, 2008 11:51am |
Angelia baby PLEASE come home. I know all about you and Dave. We can work this out.just give me another chance my little snow flake. Dave can't work da middle like i could. PLEASE COME HOME. I love you!
I cant belive you doin my like this. |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : rebecca Date/time : July 28, 2008 1:00pm |
| People get bored being in the same situation day after day.Maybe instead of wanting to be with your ex you need to be with yourself a little bit to see exactly what it is you want before you rush into something else. RJ from GA. |
|
|
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : michelle Date/time : July 31, 2008 10:29pm |
| ask yourself this....whos better in bed?????? ;) |
|
| RE: what would you do? |
By : Laura Date/time : September 5, 2008 9:37pm |
| Ask God for His strength, and His guidance. It will all work out. |
|
|
|
