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| trying to get over someone is very hard away to help this is by trying to start liking someone else if that dosent work try to ignore the person and destract yourself by doing something else thta you really like , like DRAWING OR KNITTING OR EVEN SHOPPING |
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By : diana Date/time : June 27, 2008 8:05pm |
Ya right
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By : huy Date/time : July 13, 2008 8:24am |
| yeh tryin to get over some1 is relly hard =( |
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By : karen Date/time : July 14, 2008 6:28pm |
| trying to get over some one will take time and running right out and looking for some one else to replace them with is stupid it isnt going to help yourhurt and you will most likely hurt yourself more doing that I think you should surround your self with as many family and friends as possible dont jus sit around the house cause then you will leave room for your mind to think of the ex person. Throw your self in to a hobbie your job when your not doing your hobbie or working clean your house keep your self buisy and then time will pass and you we be healed enough to move on you will be emotionally stable enough to start something new. This is a very hard thing your going through but we all have been there and time is the best cure for this sickness time and work work work keep your mind buisy so it doesnt wonder |
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By : adam Date/time : July 30, 2008 6:52am |
| i agree a lot with karen. you need a support group like your family and friends. but i also know that one of the fastest ways to get over someone is to get rid of everything that reminds you of them. trust me i know this works. i went out with someone for 3 years and everything was great. but living together, working together, and going to school together was causing us to get on each others nerves. i got rid of all the things that reminded me of them and now i feel just as good as i did when i was the happiest with that person and i can feel like that wherever with whoever. not just that one person. |
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By : Michael Date/time : October 4, 2008 7:02pm |
| Ok, try dating someone for a short time, dropping everything in your life to move where they are, it NOT working because neither of you were really ready, moving back, and WAITING for over 3 years for the right time. All the while, you are alone and lonely, and NOT lookin or dating anyone else. Finding out that the other person married (which didn't work out), moved in with an old BF (which also didn't work out), and now realizes that they are ready to try again. It depends on who it is you are trying to get over. I have 2 ex-wives in which the first (after 10 years marriage) was very hard. The second, not so hard. But this woman is who I am to be with. She is my Angel. Because of her, I understand what "unconditional" love is. Time will tell if you are to get over someone or not. Sometimes you never get over them, but you need to move on as best you can. I am fortunate because my Angel has always cared about me, but unfortunate circumstances has prevented us from being together. Now, after 3 years, we are making plans to be together again (she is currently 250 miles away). Stick it out as long as you can. You will know when it is time to move on or not. |
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