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| Yea it is hard. This too well pass! Yeah right. The much asked question...Is is better to have loved and lost than to have never have loved at all is now about to be answered. It is better to have been loved not at all. The pain and all the expense has been eliminated and then you still have your heart and bank account intact! I still pine for a couple of those in my past but you can never go back. I prefer to file them away as life experience and go on! |
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By : shuquita Date/time : August 16, 2010 12:32pm |
| IT GIONG TO TAKE TIME TO GET ON THIS PERSON.IS GIONG TO BE EASY TO GET OVER HER ARE HIM |
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By : michelle Date/time : June 15, 2010 4:19pm |
| WHEN YOU TRULEY LOVE SOMEONE..YOU WILL DREAM ABOUT THEM, CLOSE YOUR EYES, RELAX AND LISTEN TO THEIR VOICE ON THE VOICEMAIL...THOUGHTS OF THEM RATHER GOOD OR BAD WILL BRING TEARS TO THE SURFACE. TRYING TO DATE SOMEONE ELSE IS OUT OF THE QUESTION BECAUSE YOU COMPARE THEM TO THE ONE YOU LOVE AND WISH THAT IT WAS YOUR HEART THAT WAS WANTING YOU AGAIN...THE ONLY TRUE WAY TO GET OVER A BROKEN HEART IS THE LORD. WITHOUT MY GOD..I NEVER WOULD HAVE MADE IT! I STILL HAVE MY DAYS AND I CLOSE MY EYES AND ASK THE LORD TO GET ME THROUGH THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES. "THE WILL OF GOD WILL NOT TAKE YOU WHERE THE GRACE OF GOD WON'T PROTECT YOU, SO LET GO OF THE SITUATION AND LET GOD HANDLE IT. IF IT'S GOD'S WILL; IT WILL WORK OUT. THANK YOU, LORD FOR HELPING ME...MICHELLE |
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By : verneese Date/time : March 30, 2010 3:53pm |
| Trying to get over someone special can be difficult for a while. This is one of life's lessons we all go through. Time does heals all wounds, but the best medicine for a broken heart is keeping your mind occupied with fun things to do. Call up that friend who always wanted to take you out, but they never did. Give your self a chance to enjoy life, reguardless of the pain. You will have moments out of the blue, where the tears starts to flow (thats if you truely loved your ex.). Let it happen, get them out of your system. |
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By : Alice Date/time : March 15, 2010 12:16pm |
I have a horrible problem which is also my greatest blessing. I still love everyone I have ever loved, even when I don't like them any more. A break-up is a heartache with a migraine. Keeping busy DOES help. Now is the time to forget about those beautiful green eyes and remember the time he was a mean drunk to your little brother. Don't listen to "your" song and think of him, think instead of the first time that you heard it. Do not wax poetic about that really great night out without remembering the time that he forgot something that was really important.
I am not saying to consentrate only on the bad, just enough to get over the "poor me" stage and get back to yourself. You were a whole person before you met them, you now have learned what doesn't work, and you can be a better whole person because they taught you something. Okay, the lesson was painful, but your life is not over, just one stage of it is.
Try doing something that you've always wanted to do (skydiving, bungee jumping, high-diving into the pool, horseback riding, learn a new language, go back to school, start a new job), and remember that they loved you once for a reason. You have to really love yourself before you can let others love you.
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened." (Anon) |
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By : denise Date/time : February 20, 2010 10:55pm |
| THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER SOMEONE IS TO REMEMBER ALL THERE FAULTS AND TELL YOURSELF,WOW I CAN AND WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER...THAT HAS LESS FAULTS.. |
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By : cecil Date/time : January 17, 2010 10:37am |
| soulmate here now |
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By : Elli Date/time : February 25, 2009 5:24am |
| The best way to get over someone is keeping yourself busy and going out with friends. |
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By : lynn Date/time : February 21, 2009 9:40pm |
| I am lost! We were engaged, I sold my house, quit my job, two years later we broke up....I cant get out of bed in the am, I have been hurting myself..thinking about dating someone is not working..I have no job, no insurance to get help.... |
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By : Samantha Date/time : February 9, 2009 9:12am |
| i have to agree, trying to get over someone you love is compilicated. But liking someone else doesnt always help because you start to thinking about them when you hear a song or watch a movie. I've been in that predictament, but i still talk to my ex's and we get along fine, but it's still hard to believe we broke up after 4 1/2 years |
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By : Michael Date/time : October 4, 2008 7:02pm |
| Ok, try dating someone for a short time, dropping everything in your life to move where they are, it NOT working because neither of you were really ready, moving back, and WAITING for over 3 years for the right time. All the while, you are alone and lonely, and NOT lookin or dating anyone else. Finding out that the other person married (which didn't work out), moved in with an old BF (which also didn't work out), and now realizes that they are ready to try again. It depends on who it is you are trying to get over. I have 2 ex-wives in which the first (after 10 years marriage) was very hard. The second, not so hard. But this woman is who I am to be with. She is my Angel. Because of her, I understand what "unconditional" love is. Time will tell if you are to get over someone or not. Sometimes you never get over them, but you need to move on as best you can. I am fortunate because my Angel has always cared about me, but unfortunate circumstances has prevented us from being together. Now, after 3 years, we are making plans to be together again (she is currently 250 miles away). Stick it out as long as you can. You will know when it is time to move on or not. |
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By : adam Date/time : July 30, 2008 6:52am |
| i agree a lot with karen. you need a support group like your family and friends. but i also know that one of the fastest ways to get over someone is to get rid of everything that reminds you of them. trust me i know this works. i went out with someone for 3 years and everything was great. but living together, working together, and going to school together was causing us to get on each others nerves. i got rid of all the things that reminded me of them and now i feel just as good as i did when i was the happiest with that person and i can feel like that wherever with whoever. not just that one person. |
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By : karen Date/time : July 14, 2008 6:28pm |
| trying to get over some one will take time and running right out and looking for some one else to replace them with is stupid it isnt going to help yourhurt and you will most likely hurt yourself more doing that I think you should surround your self with as many family and friends as possible dont jus sit around the house cause then you will leave room for your mind to think of the ex person. Throw your self in to a hobbie your job when your not doing your hobbie or working clean your house keep your self buisy and then time will pass and you we be healed enough to move on you will be emotionally stable enough to start something new. This is a very hard thing your going through but we all have been there and time is the best cure for this sickness time and work work work keep your mind buisy so it doesnt wonder |
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By : huy Date/time : July 13, 2008 8:24am |
| yeh tryin to get over some1 is relly hard =( |
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By : diana Date/time : June 27, 2008 8:05pm |
Ya right
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By : kathy Date/time : June 27, 2008 3:33pm |
| trying to get over someone is very hard away to help this is by trying to start liking someone else if that dosent work try to ignore the person and destract yourself by doing something else thta you really like , like DRAWING OR KNITTING OR EVEN SHOPPING |
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