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| Try making a porn with ur boyfriend and watch it with him.erase immediately.Take some pictures of ur self.only if u trust he won't do anything with them. |
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By : Opal Date/time : March 11, 2010 5:42pm |
| Try making a porn with ur boyfriend and watch it with him.erase immediately.Take some pictures of ur self.only if u trust he won't do anything with them. |
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By : Erin Date/time : February 25, 2010 10:07pm |
| In my opinion porn is like a drug, it gives a chemical rush and is an actual addiction. A lot of people think nothing is wrong with it, but my husband is what you might call a recovering addict. He will tell you straight up that watching porn felt like a black hole to him, he could just never get enough and it took more and more to satisfy the feeling he was trying to get. He felt totally and completely stuck, and it changed the way he looked at me. Our relationship really suffered. It got to the point where I told him I couldn't handle it, it hurt too much and he agreed our relationship was more important than porn. We went to see a counselor, someone who shared our view, not the "guys do it it's normal so stop whining" view. He really had to swallow a lot of pride, but he did put our relationship first and he worked hard to get to the point he is at now. He has had no problems for 3 years, and calls me if he feels the slightest urge to go back to it. I feel like I can trust him again, and I feel respected and valued. I can honestly return that feeling of respect and I know he is happier as well. If you haven't seen Fireproof, you might want to check it out. It is an extremely cheesy show, but the message is right on. It's worth watching. I'm sorry you'e going through this! It's a hard situation. I'll keep you in my prayers. |
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By : denise Date/time : February 20, 2010 10:59pm |
| My boyfriend watches porn on the internet and tries to hide it .He also looks at other woman pictures.WhebI tell him I may just start lookin at guys he says your right it's disrespectful.but then he continues and I never do we have been together 3 years in our late 30 s thank you |
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