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| Confront him, and suggest getting help. |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : sherry Date/time : March 18, 2009 8:11pm |
 10 yrs and your just now getting curious on whether to stay or not?STAY |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : nicole Date/time : March 11, 2009 11:16pm |
| um ya ppl 10 yrs i been with my man 10 yrs and i am a narcotic user but im prescribed mine from my dr for my back so u all need to grow up he may have problems and saying all the money hes wasted how do u know hes buying the drugs he may be getting them from a dr so there |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : christina Date/time : March 8, 2009 12:27am |
| i am a recovering lortab abuser and i am doing great my drs put me on methadone and so far every thing has been good i have no more withdrawls from the lortabs and soon i will be off all meds thanks |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : NICCI Date/time : February 17, 2009 8:38am |
 dude leave him, seriously 2 years is a waste of time, he has the ability to change he just doesnt have the desire to change, you arent enough for him to get that desire either because you have been there 10 years leave him, and do it immediately. never be under a man who doesnt have a vision for his family and guess what? HIS VISION ONLY INCLUDES HIS HAPPINESS HIS GETTING HIGH what is he using for? to escape what? if he loves you he would want to escape anything |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : Keith Date/time : February 11, 2009 5:13pm |
| I'am a drug user myself and wouldn't want some one i'd been with over 10 years to give up on me. You have to deside if he's worth it to invest another 10 years with this guy. One way or the other he has to relize all the time you have already invested. |
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By : Cheryl Date/time : February 1, 2009 5:22pm |
| let him go, you can do better by yourself. Think of all the money that is wasted, will you ever have anything with this guy? Do you want kids or have kids do you really want children exposed to this kind of environment? Do YOU really want to be in this environment? You are being co-dependent and you are enabling him. You have to decide what you really want for yourself. Before you know it another ten years will pass by, then another. You will wake up one day and realize you wasted your whole life. go on get out now. do yourself a favor, you deserve it. |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : Nathalia Date/time : January 22, 2009 3:23pm |
I am a recovering drug addict and it never gets better it gets worse the longer you use. Your fiance' has to want to get better for himself. No one can make this choice for him but him. I used for 18 long years , wasted a lot of time, energy , and money.You want to be there to help ,but only if he wants to help himself. Yes 10 years is a long time, but how happy have you been. Don't you want happiness for yourself. Think about it. You'll be fine.
Nita |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : Sarah Date/time : December 13, 2008 6:26am |
| I'll tell you one thing, I have been with my husband for 15 years. He has been a user the whole time I have been with him. I didn't know the extent of it until 6 years ago. I have noticed things get worse never better. So do you really want to wait to see if he'll change, he might just get worse. Then you'll be throwing away more years of your life like I have. I am finally moving on with my life, and he did not want to change to keep me. |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : Mandy Date/time : November 28, 2008 10:36pm |
| Well, let me ask you this; How long have you been his fiance'? Just keep hoping...10 years is a very long period in your life, is it worth the risk of letting go 10 years of memories? |
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| RE: Drug Abuse |
By : Sonya Date/time : November 21, 2008 9:57am |
My fiance' & I have been together 10 years this December......For all those ten years......He has been a Narcotic Drug Abuser!!
Should I stay??? Or...Hope he changes some-day?? |
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