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| After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
Created by : Lashawn Date/time : December 27, 2009 3:43pm |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : cindy Date/time : October 12, 2010 6:59am |
| How old are you? |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : jacqueline Date/time : September 27, 2010 7:33am |
| all you need is to pray to god,for all that you need.god bless. |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : kellie Date/time : September 19, 2010 5:06pm |
| huh! I got u all beat! My husband left me after28 years together and a marriage that had lasted 23 wonderful years or so I thought. It's only been 3 months I can't even contemplate ever loving someone again, it will take awhile! |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : Misty Date/time : September 9, 2010 8:46am |
| Yea.......I've been with my husband going on 10 years now as well and just last year caught him posting ad's on NUMEROUS dating sites (Looking for casual sex, group sex, Etc...).... We separated for about a month and agreed to TRY and work things out.... Lately his NEW E-Mail address has been getting e-mails from dating sites AGAIN and he INSISTS he's not doing anything wrong... Since the split I've learned to ALWAYS trust your instincts.... Your gut CANNOT lie to you, a person can. I invested 100% of myself into our marriage and family for 10 years and still am but right now Im SOOOOO unsure. I feel like Ive been living a lie. I don't have any family nor anywhere to go which is WHY Im still tolerating the games he likes to play. I need to get on my feet and start loving myself more than I love him and as an "outsider", anyone else that may be going through what I am my HONEST opinion is RUN, as fas as you can RUN. Once a cheater or liar, ALWAYS " "........ |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : Louise Date/time : February 16, 2010 8:28pm |
One learns to Love again by first learning to LOVE YOURSELF. I've been in and out of relationships and usually the person who gets hurt is ME, the problems have always been, "i'm t-o-o nice, I never argue, I'm never jealous, etc., etc., what I've discovered is SOME MEN, A LOT OF MEN, REALLY DO LOVE BAD LADIES, THEIRS SOMETHING ABOUT THE GAME OF HUNT AND CATCH, I've always been selective, so all the men I've dated have been professional and "seemingly emotionally stable", not having been in a relationship for over 4 years has been wonderful. I spend time with my friends, I spend time on the internet, I've learned to reconnect with ME, and now, guys are coming out of the woodwork, I'm not looking for anything permanent and guys love it.
So first love you, reconnect with you, get together with friends, go out (not to meet someone) but just to have a good time, TRUST ME, ONCE YOU REALLY BEGIN TO ENJOY LIFE "ALONE", WELL WATCH WHAT HAPPENS |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : Deb Date/time : February 9, 2010 11:16pm |
 Mine was 25 years.Remember that all relationships are different.That doesn't make them wrong-just different.Trust your instincts!! |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : carol Date/time : January 25, 2010 6:18am |
I find I have more time for friends and family and don't worry about getting back at a certain time and answering to someone else for what I do.
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : carol Date/time : January 25, 2010 6:16am |
| Take your time and don't jump into bed right away......the right man will come along. I let it go and put it in God's hands if I am supposed to find someone else......if not he has taught me how to rely on him to take care of me. |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : nicol Date/time : January 17, 2010 4:46pm |
| If have to take a chance. 2 months is nothing compared to 10 years. give it time to grow. |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : Lashawn Date/time : December 27, 2009 3:44pm |
 Love more I guess,uhn? |
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| RE: After 10 years in a relationship,how do u love again |
By : Lashawn Date/time : December 27, 2009 3:43pm |
| I was in a relationship for 10 years,it been 4 years i've been single,until i met someone 2 months ago.I really like this guy alot and i don't know how to go futher w/him.Am i still holding on?That's what i ask myself,No,Hell No.Then what's wrong?Please someone tell me. |
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